同班同学的聚会

"哈哈哈！是吗？他还是一直被欺负哦？"
"他怎么一直在换学科呢？”
“他打从中学以前就很会弹钢琴，好欣赏他噢。”
噼里啪啦。。。。。。

同学聚会对我而言，就仅次于三八妇女会。
每个人都七嘴八舌，喋喋不休的，还来不及要回应，又有别的话题“脱口涌出”
时而说起某某人的八卦绯闻，
时而谈起某某人的过往。

如果你也曾留意，
有些人从坐上椅子后，
就不停的说，笑，
直到点的饭菜上桌后，
拿着碗筷，
仍在说笑着，
他的声音，
渲染着同桌朋友。。。。。。


有些人会反却安静地听着。
或许，
提到了不堪回首的过往，
或许，
觉得聊不下去了，
亦或许，
他在反思中。
听着某某人的境况，或现有的成绩，
他难免惭愧，觉得自己的生活并不精彩，成功，和积极。
他羡慕他人繁忙的时间表，
他羡慕他人艰难的工作，
他羡慕他人努力的成果。。。。。。

事实上，
就在这同桌中，
有些人向往轻松自在，
也有人向往认真上进，
两者都用不同的放大镜在看世界。
人，可以活得很轻松且潇洒，也可以拘谨有原则。

神造世人，
若每个人都是一个样的，
岂不无聊吗？
这样的神，
也未免太无创造力了吧。

一种米养百种人，
人各有志，
每个人也都有自己的道路，生活，故事。
可我们也该时时反省且提醒自己，
时间久了，我们
是否仍在追随对的东西，
是否仍在鞭策的道路上。。。。。。


听着听着，
竟已黄昏了。
回头才发现，自己偏离了过往鞭策的轨道。
真的是时间改变了我吗？
我不知道，
磚牛角尖想下去，无法带我回到轨道。
只知道，这场聚会好有意义。

同班的同学，
有时反成为我们的借镜，
让我们更看清自己。。。。。。

*感谢成为我借镜的朋友。

"Today is a gift, that is why it is called The Present"

It will take just seconds to read this and change your thinking..

Two men, both seriously ill, occupied the same
hospital room.

One man was allowed to sit up in his bed for an
hour each afternoon to help drain the fluid from
his lungs.

His bed was next to the room's only window.

The other man had to spend all his time flat on
his back.

The men talked for hours on end.

They spoke of their wives and families, their
homes, their jobs, their involvement in the
military service, where they had been on
vacation..

Every afternoon, when the man in the bed by the
window could sit up, he would pass the time by
describing to his roommate all the things he could
see outside the window.

The man in the other bed began to live for those
one hour periods where his world would be
broadened and enlivened by all the activity and
colour of the world outside.

The window overlooked a park with a lovely lake.Ducks and swans played on the water while
children sailed their model boats. Young lovers
walked arm in arm amidst flowers of every colour
and a fine view of the city skyline could be seen
in the distance.

As the man by the window described all this in
exquisite details, the man on the other side of
the room would close his eyes and imagine this
picturesque scene.

One warm afternoon, the man by the window
described a parade passing by.

Although the other man could not hear the band -
he could see it in his mind's eye as the
gentleman by the window portrayed it with
descriptive words.

Days, weeks and months passed.
One morning, the day nurse arrived to bring
water for their baths only to find the lifeless body
of the man by the window, who had died
peacefully in his sleep.

She was saddened and called the hospital
attendants to take the body away.

As soon as it seemed appropriate, the other man
asked if he could be moved next to the window.
The nurse was happy to make the switch, and
after making sure he was comfortable, she left
him alone.

Slowly, painfully, he propped himself up on one
elbow to take his first look at the real world
outside.
He strained to slowly turn to look out the window
besides the bed.

It faced a blank wall.

The man asked the nurse what could have
compelled his deceased roommate who had
described such wonderful things outside this
window.

The nurse responded that the man was blind and
could not even see the wall.

She said, 'Perhaps he just wanted to encourage
you.'

Epilogue:
There is tremendous happiness in making others
happy, despite our own situations.
Shared grief is half the sorrow, but happiness
when shared, is doubled.
If you want to feel rich, just count all the things
you have that money can't buy.
'Today is a gift, that is why it is called The
Present .'
*The origin of the letter above is unknown.


Only now i know that, why is "NOW" also known as "Present". =D
It is all because, Today is a gift..

孩子? 噢,大孩子?

十月怀胎，几经昏眩，呕吐，剧痛，折腾。他和她却用温柔的眼神望着她，叫着名字。

孩提时代， 她是小霸王。尽管如此，周围的人仍旧把她捧在手心，再补上一句“小孩子嘛，还不懂事“。

少年时期，她有自己青春的世界，对于逝去青春的人一概拒于千里之外。他们，有时误踩禁区，不知所措。

毕业后，她有自己的目标，理想，人生规划。为了追逐那梦，她忘了自己的归属。他们，也只能选择渐渐放手。

有了家庭后，她离他们越来越远。偶尔有委屈，争吵，就找父母诉苦。他们，和祥地听，轻柔地安慰。

从孩子，到成家，她仍旧是他们的孩子，大孩子。
父母的爱从不间断，尽管我们离他们而去，他们也仍会为我们敞开双手，等着我们的归来。

我不是个尽心，尽意，尽力的好孩子，
只祈祷父母能享有平安，也享有年岁，让我继续学习报答他们。

P/S：
给懊恼，迷路，彷徨的孩子，
天父也一直爱你，
等你。。。

致久违的你

好一段时间没提笔了，
写下这篇文章的颗颗粒粒后，
才发现已耗了将近一小时。。。

每当我想挥洒文字或是写些分享时，
总会煎熬难耐，。
脑海里的想法都堵在瓶口，
十分拥挤，
快窒息了吧。。。

有时，
我想分享些愉快，励志的文字。
有时，
我想让人读了我的文字能更加开朗的。。。

写些感性或触景的文字。
有时，
自己会更加意志消沉。。。
有时，
我的脑会开始燥热，高速跑撞，挺折腾的。
我也不知为什么。。

真希望能搞定这麻烦的你。。。

A random post XD

"Your mind must be stronger than your heart because your heart doesn't knows how to difference between what is right and what is wrong. " *Quoted from one of my friend's status on facebook.

My OS : No! you don't.. It is the heart that pumps blood and keep you living..XD
              HAHA, but your mind decide your living..

Given that,
Brain   =  Rasional
Heart  =  Emotional

Well, what is the ratio of this 2 elements in your life?

Hm,, personally, i prefer 2kg brain n 1 kg heart.. XD
Well, when emotions getting flood, i still have more of rational to choose my act.. hehe
BUT, emotion is still good..
It is flavoring to our life..
The peace, joy, passion.. (Well, i don't include "love" because it is an action rather than an emotion)

Hehe,
i would like to "touch" about the ration of soul and flesh too..
but in such case, i don't choose the ratio of 2:1..
Instead, 3:0... XD

but wait!
Which S.I unit that applied to soul? What about flesh?
haha..
be blessed peeps..

A worshipper

People worship in life.. either consciously or unconsciously..


Definition of worship :
show reverence and adoration for (a deity)

So,
some pay full adoration and reverence over money, some on Facebook, games, technology, coupling, boasting, or maybe friends..These eventually become the "deity" in their own life..which they found most important and essential.

However,
is such worships bear "fruit"?
We shall see it..

Then,
how should people worship God?

The English word "worship" comes from two Old English words: weorth, which means "worth," and scipe or ship, We can see the Old English word -ship in modern words like friendship and sportsmanship – that’s the quality of being a friend, or the quality of being a good sport.

So worth-ship is the quality of having worth or of being worthy. When we worship, we are saying that God has worth, that he is worthy. Worship means to declare worth, to attribute worth. Or to put it in biblical terms, we praise God. We speak, or sing, about how good and powerful God is.

New International Version (©1984)God is spirit, and his worshipers must worship in spirit and in truth." John 4:24

There we know, in spirit and truth we worship the Al-Mighty and graceful God.

It doesnt matter where the worship takes place..

But what more important is, 

knowing who You are worshiping..

There is three kinds of worship. There is

1. worship that involves speaking, and
2. worship that involves listening, and
3. a worship that involves doing.

There is a worship that expresses the heart, and worship that involves the mind, and a worship that involves the body. There is a worship that is giving praise upward, a worship that is receiving instructions from above, and a worship that carries out instruction in the world around us.

We need all three types of worship. Some people focus primarily on speaking or singing praise to God. Praise is good, but if all we do is praise God, without ever listening to what he says, we have to ask whether we believe the words we are saying. If he is really all wise and all loving, then we need to be attentive to what he is telling us, because he is worth listening to.

Similarly, all talk and no action does not show God the respect he deserves. Actions speak louder than words, and if our behavior isn’t changed by God, then our actions are saying that God isn’t important — he’s a nice idea, but not relevant to our day-to-day lives. When we really believe that God is worthy of every praise, then we will be willing to listen and to change the way we live in response to such a worthy God. We will trust him and seek him and want to please him as much as we can. Worship should affect our behavior.

quoted from 

And be reminded, when we talk of a "subject of person" , there is something wonderful in between,

which is a relationship, connection..

So, 

let's beware of what we worship and lift high;

let's live a life of worship, not worship as part of life;

let's grow..


Get closer and more alike to God
Be blessed..

holiday....soon!!! lol!

hmm, regardless of how terrible this sem seem to be to me.. it gonna end soon!

still have another 3 papers left..

Well, come to think of it..
time flies, people is aging..
thanks God i'm stil living..

LOL!!! have no idea of wat tis post is about..